VISIT GUIDELINES
Parents
Clear, calm expectations to help visits feel predictable and safe
Supervised visitation works best when everyone knows what to expect. These guidelines help create a steady, comfortable environment where your child can relax and enjoy their time with you. Everything here is designed to support your child’s emotional well‑being and follow the court’s expectations.
Arriving for Visits
Please arrive on time and follow the agreed‑upon arrival plan. This helps your child feel settled and reduces stress at the start of the visit. If something unexpected comes up, let me know as soon as possible.
During the Visit
Visits are child‑focused. Your child sets the pace, and I remain present the entire time to support safety and comfort. You are welcome to play, talk, read, or engage in activities that feel natural and appropriate for your child’s age and needs.
Topics to Avoid
To keep visits calm and safe, certain topics are not allowed. This includes discussing court matters, adult conflict, custody issues, or anything that may cause your child stress. I will gently redirect if needed.
Physical Contact
Physical contact should always be child‑led and comfortable for them. If your child reaches for a hug, that is welcomed. If they need space, we honor that too.
Food, Drinks, and Activities
You may bring simple snacks or drinks if allowed by the court order and appropriate for your child. Activities should be safe, calm, and easy to manage in the visit setting.
Ending the Visit
Transitions can be emotional for children. I will guide the end of the visit in a calm, predictable way so your child feels supported. Please follow the departure plan we discuss during orientation.
WHAT TO BRING
Simple guidance to help you feel prepared
You don’t need to bring much to supervised visitation. A few thoughtful items can help your child feel comfortable and make the visit go smoothly.
For Your Child
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Comfort items they rely on (if allowed)
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Weather‑appropriate clothing or outerwear
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Any medical items they need during the visit
For the Visit
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Simple snacks or drinks (if permitted)
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Small, quiet activities your child enjoys
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Diapers, wipes, or other care items for younger children
What Not to Bring
To keep visits safe and predictable, please avoid bringing:
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Gifts that may cause emotional pressure
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Large or complicated items
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Anything restricted by the court order
If you’re unsure about an item, I will help you decide what’s appropriate.